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Sign me up. Your session is about to expire. Try these science-backed ways to help depression. One thing that helped Keats deal with his depression : Being out in nature. What you do counts: Are you doing any of these daily habits that raise your risk for depression? Schulz , cartoonist. These 29 cartoons will help you get through this week. There is no off switch.
You have everything going for you. You are the supposed number one heroine and have a plush home, car, movies… What else do you want? Although, to be fair, counting their blessings is one of the things that happy people do every day. These are the foods that can help fight depression. It becomes a comfort. I want to cloak myself under its heavy weight and breathe it into my lungs. I want to nurture it, grow it, cultivate it.
I want to check out with it, drift asleep wrapped in its arms and not wake up for a long, long time. Lewis , author. Broken heart syndrome is a real thing , actually. And then one day, I was getting ready to go to sleep and Chris and I were joking around in bed. I was light, joyful. Little by little, I got my joy back. I was no longer feeling strangled by my narrative. I rediscovered the pleasure of the moment, the joie-de-vivre I thought I owned but I now realized was such a fragile gift.
Most of all, I lost my attachment to my own suffering. It was like suddenly my suffering released the claws it had around my neck and flew away. Instead of seeing problems, I could see all the solutions offering themselves to me. Instead of suffocating, I could breathe. Breaking your wings is a shocking experience.
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The one I was clinging to as I went deeper into the darkness of my depression had been dead for a long time. I finally managed to let her go. Softer, more fragile. So much humbler about the mysteries of life. So much less self-assured, but so much more open. So much more loving, so much simpler. If I need them, so be it. Our paths are so fascinating, and those journeys are what make up our lives. You have to be careful and choose a very good doctor. Mental health and perceived success, money, and love have nothing to do with one another.
If the people who have it all want to die, what are the rest of us running after? Take your pain seriously. Try to listen to any physical signs of discomfort you might have. Me, for example, when I spend too much time on social media, my pulse accelerates, and my throat tightens.
I still have so much to tell you, but I tried to make this short. I want to keep talking about mental health so we can start to be more uninhibited about it and not hesitate to ask for help. Talking about it is already such an important step. Important stuff. Nice to see someone post that medications are often necessary and do help! Thank you for sharing this. Thank you endlessly. I started reading your blog years and years ago and the main thing I keep coming back for is your heart and your honesty, even when it gets tough.
Especially when it gets tough. Thank you. Gratefully, Marlene. Everybody is unique! Take care et merci…. Such a refreshing post to read. Thank you! Merci Garance. Merci, Merci, Merci et beaucoup de bonheur pour la suite. Thank you for opening and talking about it Garance.. This is so important! I hope you get even better! I know exactly what you talk about, it was like I was reading a summary of my own experience with depression in and I was only 26 then.
Luckily, in my darkest hour I had this one person beside me who stood by me and walked me through the darkness until I finally started seeing the light again. Now when I look back at those months of sadness and pain, I can certainly confirm that I am not and will never be the same person as I was before my depression. It made me turn my concept for the valuable things in life at degrees, but it also made me so much stronger, as it was the hardest thing to overcome. I am sending you all my positive energy and good vibes!
Wishing you all best things and hoping you will never, ever slip down in the black hole! Yet it just got worse and worse, even after trying some 12 or 13 different s. Merci Garance, merci de partager! Thank you Garance, for writing this. I have been through both depression and losing my past self, although for me they were two separate times of my life losing my past self was brought on by endometriosis and the subsequent surgery. I love that you have written about taking the steps you needed, so many people in the public eye seem to spit on mental health drugs, but they help so many people.
Thank you so much for your truth and your vulnerability. Making my way back into the light. Garance thank you so much for sharing your life and your experience! And what I feel and what I know is that my depression was not only for not being able to have a child, it is something deeper, that I am trying to discover, and I know I will have to work on it all my life.
I made two treatments long time ago with antidepressants and that had helped me a lot. Now I take bach flowers, and it is ok for me right now. Muchas gracias por tus palabras. Et je reprenais la lutte. Je continue. Wow… Merci pour ton texte. Je te souhaite le meilleur. Thank you Garance for your candor…so well written and heartfelt. Reading this has come at a time when my mother is too going through depression and anxiety. Anti-depressants are a tool to be used and used carefully, as is talk therapy. My trajectory was that I went on and off them for many years, and what finally really worked was just getting older and changing my life.
Thank you for sharing this, Garance. Your honesty and vulnerability are so powerful and appreciated.
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We are in unprecedented times right now, and I am so grateful for this raw outpouring. Thank you for sharing your journey. I wish you so much peace and joy and real, true aliveness. I am on antidepressants too, and I went on a very dark time of my life because I had demonized them, with no information whatoever. I mean, being depressed is not just having a couple of days of bad moods. We need voices of MeToo here, because otherwise we live our difficulties with shame. Chapeau Garance, Bon Courage! So honest, as usual! Big Hug for all team from portuguese living in Luanda, Angola.
My dear goddess, tears are flowing as I write this. I relate to so much of what you have written here, and am so grateful to you for writing it. I was about your age when I first took an antidepressant—the result of having children—ha!
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Because I too remember that dawning of death as a possibility, even as I have everything I could ever want—and will do whatever I need to care for myself to not go there. Bravo to you, and know that we are all here cheering for you, wrapping you up in love…. So glad that you are taking care of yourself. Thank you for sharing this — it may save many from similar pain. We need to start treating mental health as important and stigma-free as we treat physical health. Wish you good health, peace and serenity. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
You write so beautifully and vulnerably about this. I like that you remind us that there are no happy endings, no magic pills, but rather a winding, bumpy, beautiful, complex journey to keep on traveling. Garance this is so gracefully truthful. Losing your attachment to your own suffering resonates so much with me. In a way I realize now that I was using my suffering as a means of protection, as a means of keeping myself paralyzed by sadness and anxiety. Good luck. Garance Thank you so much for sharing this. Unfortunately i know the feeling. What means being depressed. And yes, Life these days put all of us over the edge.
Take care of your Joy. So happy you are feeling better. You really are that joyful person — so get get off those meds as soon as you feel centered again. Dear Garance — Thank you got your truth. Thank you for your honesty. I know this is hard. I understand this and works towards being mentally better. A place my husband brought me to and abandoned me and teenage daughter with a mental illness. So, I am starting over with incredible mental help, little finances, but believing I will get out of FL, work for an incredible creative company we woman at 50 plus seem to be having a surge.
To my daughter- All this — because of getting mentally better — Thank you, thank you, thank you for your honesty. Une nouvelle fois : Merci! Tres beau texte Garance qui a reveille tant de souvenirs! Thank you for sharing this Garance! It took a lot of courage to speak out about what you are going through in such a specific way.
I, too, am a long-time reader who has always appreciated your voice. As someone who had a career writing about business and management issues, I can well imagine how the toll of capitalism and its relentless drive for bigger and better product would impact an artistic, sensitive person like yourself. It sounds like the values statement you recently published addresses some of that.
Sending love and healing. I really feel giving you a hug in this moment and not necessarily to show compassion, but because you really touch a very delicate subject for me. I am grateful that I live in a time when antidepressants are available, and I feel no shame in telling people that I take them. There is ample research that suggests that we carry the anxiety and the negative experiences of our ancestors in our DNA epigenetic change , and I feel that is true for me.
It is difficult to be a woman in our culture. Be kind and gentle to yourself. Thank you for being open about your suffering. Taking time off to be bored, live in the nature, and slow down is hard after becoming part of the NY pace of life. Yet it is the best gift when you allow yourself to do so and become your best friend, no matter how much time and space you need before you can go out in public. Have gone through a similar experience, and realize I am more beautiful and confident now than ever. And the relationship I have with time is more about my own intuition and pace than the one dictated by others.
Choosing to light up your internal wiring and hear your inner voice is like tending to a neglected garden where we can find the peace we need. Thanks again for sharing your story! I am so glad you found help. I know many people for whom medications have been literal lifesavers. It can be triggered by a sad event like a death of a loved one, or something that has been accreting slowly over time, many small things that eventually add up to crisis.
Just months ago, a relative went on them. She always had inordinate reactions to situations—her phone ringing while she was putting on makeup could lead her to throw everything, from her makeup to mirrors to lamps, at the walls, rather than just let the call go to voicemail. She fell for manipulative, possessive, even sociopathic, guys and then practically went Fatal Attraction when they would dump her.
She got on meds and suddenly was…normal. Enfin …une vrai sincerit? Thank you so much for sharing! I cried three times while reading.. I am going through the same and have been debating whether I should go back to antidepressants. I felt so identified almost as if I had written it. Thank you so much!
Try to disconnect more often — remember life before computers and smart phones? Yeah, like that. The real stuff. The juicy stuff. The rest is just fluff. Happy Healing, xo. Thank you for sharing! Each share brings down the stigma associated getting help—as the daughter of a therapist I really believe this. To read this post about your depression touches me and makes me feel sad for you, but also makes me very proud.
To admit and talk about your problems, grieve and doubts makes you an even better, more complete and beautiful woman! Maya Angelou said: the real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. She was so right. Love yourself, and realise that so many others including me love you too!
It is wonderful that you are being open and honest about this. It will certainly continue to help you heal and also help others do the same. Bravo for your bravery. Also daily exercise and cutting back on alcohol are magic for insomnia. Peace be with you. The end? Oh que non! Vigilante aussi. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Mental health is so vital yet too often ignored. Your thoughtfully written words serve as comfort, support and a reminder that we should all listen and be gentle with ourselves and seek help when we need it. Thank you and I wish you well.
Thank you for sharing this! Good choice! Thank you!! Sorry for my english..! For me, therapy was very helpful…. Yoga and meditation gave me tools to deal with my anxiety. I also take antidepressants and while they may not be for everyone, they allow me to be my best self. There can be so much joy after going through a dark tunnel.
Wish you much love, light and laughter. Comme en apensateur. I know all about that struggle- have had depression and struggle with OCD and generalised anxiety and I have to say- the thing I have always wished was for conversations to open up in society and to destigmatise mental health- it is so important for people struggling with mental health to not feel like something is wrong with them and they are freaks. Sorry for making this about me : but what I want to say is, please keep on talking about mental health, it helps not only us who struggle with it but it also destigmatises it, especially when hearing from someone as influential as you!
I doubt many people in fashion would dare to do that. I am a fashion journalist myself and I know what the industry is like and I am amazed by your strength, courage and determination! Beautifully written, as always! It seems that by opening up about your experiences, you are helping many. I am lucky…I have not suffered with depression or anxiety, at least not in the way you describe. I am amazed and concerned at the numbers of people who have been coming out with revelations about suffering with these problems…I hope it is just that it is more acceptable to talk about.
I hope I am not correct in that thought. You described it all so so well! Antidepressants are my life saver- I understand it all. Yes why is society causing so many women to need medication. Something is seriously wrong. Thank you xxxxxx. La perspective de vivre mieux avec une pilule ne me paraissait pas une raison suffisante pour accepter la vie. Surtout le 2eme paragraphe. Merci Anje. Prends bien soin de toi. Thank you Garance! You are a brave woman! I am positive that what happened was a step that will bring more self knowledge of who you are.
Life has this moments… Face it as you did. Love you!!! Good luck with your journey! Reading of your experience will, I have no doubt, help me to articulate and share more about this side of my life to those close to me. From the bottom of my heart — thank you Garance. Thank you so much for sharing this. Being resilient is the best asset oneself can have in this crazy world of today.
Love you Garance just the way you are!
Captivating words that so eloquently explain that feeling that seems to bury itself inside your being. My experience seems to parallel what you have detailed. Going on low dose antidepressants helped me climb out of a haze that affected not only me but the ones I love the most. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for letting us in. Here if you need me, Garance. No words to convey how important this post was. My daughter has suffered similar, and was hospitalised for weeks.
She is mending, slowly; but it is taking years of her youth, I watch and worry. Garance, all I can add is all my warmest hopes and wishes for you, and thank God you have a strong support team around you. Take care Cherie, you are part of my life too. We rarely get vulnerable or go deep with what we share with others. We all experience suffering, yet put up our facade and suffer in silence. Thank you for your courage and strength to share your story.
I understand. I continue to be challenged to keep the battles in my head at bay. The lack of human connection in the age of technology is deafening and devastating to our society. Un grande abbraccio, Garance! Per me, sei comunque una scrittrice da Nobel! Ciao, Mariateresa ici Bari!
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Bon courage dans ta route et garde espoir. Merci Garance de partager avec nous. Encore merci. I just cried my eyes out reading this. I never left a comment here but have been reading your blog for years. Today I just felt like it. Garance you are so FULL of grace!! Keep on keeping on!! On September 11th the airplane that hit the trade center first was AA Boston I had flown with every crew member and had often worked that particular trip.
I was in the air that day as well working a flight to Orlando, Florida. Boston was a very small base and it was devastating to lose so many people. The anxiety I felt after this was intense. I also realized I had lived with anxiety most of my life since my childhood was very traumatic with both parents having mental illness and my need to cope on my own from an early age. After September 11th I started taking 10 mg of Celexa and I have been taking it ever since and will continue to take it. It has helped my anxiety and I have a calmness that was not there before.
There shoud be no stigma attached to taking something to help feel better! I will be on this forever.
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Please try not to judge yourself or to think that you must stop taking it in the future. Those thoughts alone can create anxiety! Best wishes to you and thank you for being honest. Thank you garance.
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Depression hit me 5 years ago. I suffered insomnia too. I took medication for a few months and then slowly came off them. A few years later 2 years ago depression hit me again but I really delved into myself without medication. Accepting everything I was and fighting my insecurities. Treated me like I was weak and being dramatic. Not everyone but some. We love you Garance! Hey garance, so brave of u to open up about ur struggle.
Thanks for that and keep getting better so we can enjoy ur enormous talents for many years to come! Bisou, Hon-Tai. Hello Garance — thank you for being so honest, as always and very brave too. I hope that we can all work together to help remove the stigma around mental health and normalise the different routes to well being… one of which surely has to be a long walk with an enthusiastic dog — a more life enhancing activity i cannot think of : xxx. Read an interesting article in The Guardian today about youtube bloggers that seems relevant to some of your points. Hope you get better day by day and actually take one day at a time.
To be honest I am sceptical as to how healing this aftermath sharing is for your fellow sisters. I honestly feel that a few posts revealing that you actually feel lost when you feel lost would be much more appreciated. Noone is expecting from you to provide solutions but perhaps being a little more open about your fabulousness not being as fabulous when it is happeningnow might end up in a less toxic and stressful impact of social media on your followers life, if sharing is an important part of who you are.
You are always beaming of style and that is why I am following what you do. I am sure that sense of style can be incorporated in a more relaxed attitude towards how shiney your posts should be. Everyday solidarity could be also beneficial for you perhaps, rather than getting it three times a year with articles that drop as bombs to confirm that you are human. We know you are. Keep on keeping on and perhaps I can also find hope in this new era. Thank you Garance. I have everything. A good career and awesome boss. Lovely husband. Wonderful friends.
I live in a society where I have everything I want, including freedom. Why do I feel such pain? Your story is important and really means a lot to me. Thank you…its still so hard in the society to be open about depression. And even freinds and family do not understand what is going on with you. Thank you so much for talking it out open! Life is a treaky thing. Merci pour cette franchise.
Thank you for sharing, Garance. So glad to hear the dark cloud is lifting. Best, Janet. Garance tu es incroyable.